Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Agreeing, Disagreeing, and Giving Opinions

Giving Opinions/ Summarizing/Agreeing and Disagreeing in English
adapted from The Language of Meetings by Malcolm Goodale


Asking for an Opinion/Reaction

§  What’s your opinion of…
§  What’s your position on…
§  What do you think of…
§  I’d like to hear your views on…
§  Could I ask for your reaction to…?
§  I was wondering where you stood on…
Where exactly do you stand on…?

Giving a Tentative Opinion

§  It seems to me that…
§  I would say that…
§  As far as I can judge…
§  I think it would be fair to say that…
§  It could be that….
Giving a Moderate Opinion

§  I think….
§  In my opinion…
§  It’s my opinion that…
§  As far as I’m concerned….
§  From my point of view…
§  It’s my belief that…
§   
Giving a Strong Opinion

§  I firmly/strongly/definitely believe that…
§  I’m absolutely convinced that…
§  It’s my strong belief that…
§  There’s no doubt in my mind that…
§  It’s quite clear that…
§  I’m certain that….
§  It’s my considered opinion that…
§   
Summarizing

§  To summarize…
§  In short,…
§  Briefly, …
§  If I could just sum up ….
§  To sum up, ….

Strong Agreement

§  I completely/totally agree.
§  I agree entirely.
§  Exactly!
§  I’m of exactly the same opinion.
§  I couldn’t agree more.
§  You’re exactly right.
§  That’s exactly right.



Moderate/Partial Agreement

§  I think we’re in agreement on that..
§  I think I can go along with that.
§  I tend to agree.
§  I agree on the whole, but…
§  I agree in principle but…
§  By and large, I accept your views, but…


Moderate/Tactful Disagreement

§  I don’t completely agree with you.
§  I can’t say that I agree.
§  We’ll have to agree to disagree.
§  I’m not totally convinced by your argument.
§  I feel I must disagree.
§  You have a good point but…
§  I take your point but…
§  I see what you mean but…
§  That’s a good point but…
§  That’s true but…
§  Yes, but…

Strong Disagreement

§  I totally/completely disagree.
§  I don’t agree at all.
§  You’re completely mistaken.
§  I disagree entirely.
§  Under no circumstances could I agree.
§  What you’re saying is just not possible.
§  I really have to disagree.
Softening Disagreement

§  Frankly,…
§  To be honest…
§  I’m afraid…
§  With (all due) respect…
§  To be frank…
§  Frankly speaking…
§   
Softening any “face-threatening” act

  • Use questions
  • Use negative questions
  • Use modals
  • Use an introductory softening phrase
  • Use “not + very” + positive adjective
  • Use comparative adjectives
  • Use continuous verb tenses
  • Use qualifiers (“rather” “somewhat” “a bit” “slightly”…)